refactor: unify extra argument parsing

[leejet]

Summary

• Add shared key/value argument parsing helpers in util for comma/semicolon-separated key=value lists.
• Reuse the shared parser for sampler extra args, LTX2 scheduler args, and LTX VAE tiling args.
• Centralize strict float/int/bool parsing and warn consistently for malformed extra-arg tokens.

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